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Who We Are

Stiletto Agency offers a full suite of training, speaking, coaching and consulting services to empower organizations and their people to take control of their future.

Founded in 2011 by Shelley Klingerman, our agency helps individuals and organizations to take control of their lives and thrive in everyday activities without feeling held back by vulnerability or intimidation.

We provide all the information you need to rise above distractions or obstacles that keep you from achieving your goals. Eventually, you’ll adapt a brand new mindset and outlook on your life at work, at home, and in your social life that is sure to make you feel safe, confident, and empowered.

Shelley Klingerman

Founder and President

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Joann "jo" Dowell

Co-Trainer

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What We Do

For over a decade, we have given men and women tips and tactics to make them feel safer and be less of a target in their everyday lives.

Now, we’re expanding our mission to something even greater. We empower business executives, organizations, and the people within them, to completely transform. With our tips, tricks, and tactics, you will feel more confident making decisions personally and professionally.

Here’s how we do it:

Training

For corporations, universities, and organizations, we will provide safety training to minimize threats at work, in public, and at home.

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Coaching

Whether it’s within a team in the workplace or for your own personal life, we’re dedicated to coach you through issues and towards both your professional and personal goals.

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Consulting

Our consultancy program will transform your culture and leadership into a more diverse environment, while educating companies on safety and connection in the workplace.

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"My decision to enlist the services of Shelley as a business coach and organizational specialist is the most productive step forward I have taken in the last 20 years. Her insight, analysis, and very direct communication approach yielded significant improvements in both work efficiency and quality of life. I'm particularly pleased with Shelley's guidance in the areas of redirecting my mindset, focusing time and energy on core, and reducing/eliminating mental clutter. I HIGHLY recommend Shelley to any business owner or manager."
Jon Moore
"I definitely feel like I’ve applied a few tips since our meeting. I try to walk in the middle of parking aisles and I’ve stopped putting in headphones when I’m walking alone so that I look more alert and it’s given me some extra confidence!"
Sarah
"Thank you again for such a life-changing (and potentially life-saving) program. Whether I’m traveling or running errands, your lessons on situational awareness give me the confidence to single-handedly explore my community and the world."
Linda Margison
"Shelley was absolutely amazing! We were able to livestream the training for our employees across the country and received a lot of great feedback from everyone. Many of our employees were excited to get a copy of the book for their spouse, children or friends. A lot of great tips to help keep yourself safe whether you are travelling for business or pleasure. Thank you so much for an engaging and insightful training."
Alyson Hanson
"You hate to think that you could ever be a victim, but predators are always looking for opportunities and sizing you up. This book shares so many practical and easy ways to increase your awareness, advocate for yourself, and prepare to protect yourself in a strategic and effective way if and when you find yourself in a dangerous situation. I travel alone all the time and I'll be using these tips to help me feel more confident and prepared. It has reminded me that I have more power than I think and that by being vigilant and always aware of my surroundings, my odds of staying safe greatly increase. Every woman should read this and put it into practice right now!"
Lisa Mitchell
"Vigilance is a 'must read' for every mom, daughter, grandmother, aunt, niece and book club junkie! A quick, easy read that will help anyone gain a warrior mindset and become more vigilant in our everyday lives. Thank you, Shelley, for providing so many sensible tips and tactics to easily help prepare for the worst and enjoy the rewards of being empowered to protect."
L. Danielson
"I can’t tell you the number of times your teachings have come up. Even packing for Costa Rica, I thought about what I was bringing and the attention I might bring to myself. A tip I shared with my husband was, acting like you know where you are going and not stopping to stare at your phone. At the airport, I am keeping my back to a wall with a backpack when I stop for any reason… I might be overly aware in some ways! I want to say thank you for the knowledge you brought to me in such a short amount of time. You truly inspire me, and your message is so helpful. I truly think you have found your dharma in life. Thank you for sharing it with our group."
Lauren
"My family read this book for personal education on security matters. Although it may be aimed at women, the information contained in the book is applicable to everyone. It is a great tool for developing a personal security program because it is arranged in a text book-like format. Short and direct sections in each chapter allow you to easily navigate through the material while learning. There are very important topics in the book, and although there are many "personal security" books out there, this one has a personal touch that can only be delivered by the author and her personal experiences. Usually reading a book on personal security is a chore. Reading and learning from this one was completely enjoyable."
Dominic J. Arcuri
"I immediately identified myself as a victim of monkey mind !! I am definitely going to use Shelley's tips to improve everyday mindfulness. It's easy to become complacent with our routines which could distract attention from potential threats and risks. Shelley provides practical tips to share with family, friends, and colleagues! Thank you Shelley!!"
Fredia Haviland
"I have definitely used a lot of the tips provided in our training in my everyday life. I find myself being more aware of my surroundings (but not scared) which is a great feeling of empowerment! Thanks so much for taking the time to share your knowledge with our group."
Haley
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